Here’s what won’t get conflict resolved or less conflict in your life: becoming more selfish. It’s true that conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be fatal.
Should the toilet paper go over or under? Must we squeeze the toothpaste in the middle or from the bottom? Which paper towels should we buy, full sheets or half? Why do these become big issues? The reason is often that there is already an unresolved tension that we either refuse to deal with or have learned to ignore. It isn’t going away, so you might as well deal with it.
The key to dealing with differences and resolving conflict in a positive manner is our selfishness. We have to give up our right to be right, to win the argument and be in control.
Proverbs 13:10 “Pride leads to arguments. Be humble, take advice, and become wise.” Don’t let pride keep you from peace, love and joy in your home, workspace or friendships. Kill your pride before it kills your connections.
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